Cultivating Friendships That Flourish: How to Find Good Friends and Be the Friend You Wish You Had — Bailey Hurley

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In this episode of the SHE’S SO WELL Podcast, we dive into the beauty, complexity, and purpose of friendship. So many of us grow up longing for that one best friend or close-knit group where we feel fully known and deeply loved. Yet as we get older, friendships can become messy, complicated, and even painful.

Despite living in a hyper-connected world, loneliness is more common than ever—especially among women and Gen Z. So what’s missing?

We’re joined by a special guest known as the “friendship girl,” who shares her heart for helping women build meaningful, healthy relationships rooted in Christ. Together, we explore how Jesus transforms not only our lives but also the way we connect with others.

In this conversation, we unpack:

  • The common struggles women face in friendships and why they can be hard to navigate
  • A fresh, creative “garden” framework for understanding the stages of friendship
  • Practical tips for making new friends and leaving a lasting first impression
  • Warning signs of toxic friendships and how to handle them with wisdom
  • Biblical principles and Scriptures that guide us in being a good friend

We also talk honestly about loneliness and why so many people feel unseen—even while constantly connected online. One key takeaway? Shift the focus outward. When we take a genuine interest in others, we create space for deeper, more meaningful relationships.

Inspired by timeless wisdom and the example of Jesus, this episode reminds us:

  • To be interested rather than trying to be interesting
  • To make others feel seen, valued, and known
  • That our worth comes from God—not from others’ approval

From simple acts like remembering birthdays and making phone calls, to deeper mindset shifts rooted in faith, this episode offers practical encouragement for anyone longing for stronger friendships.

If you’ve ever struggled to find your people or wondered if genuine friendship is still possible—this conversation is for you.

Important Links

Website: https://baileythurley.com/


https://www.instagram.com/bailey.t.hurley/

 

Wonderfully Made Website: https://wonderfullymade.org/

 

Allie’s Website: https://alliemariesmith.com/

 

Get the book: “Social Media Reset” https://a.co/d/96g5Lu1

 

Get the book “Wonderfully Made” https://a.co/d/6Uc43hI

 

Invite Allie to Speak or Book an Interview 

https://alliemariesmith.com/speaking

 

Life Coaching for Teen Girls

https://wonderfullymade.org/teen-lifecoaching/

About Bailey

Bailey T. Hurley is the author of Together is a Beautiful Place and she helps busy women navigate friendship through the lens of God’s Word and good research. Bailey holds an MA in leadership from Denver Seminary and uses her degree to lead a community group with her family, serving twenty men and women every week in their home. She currently lives in Denver, CO with her husband, Tim, and kiddos: Hunter, Liv, and Henri.

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